Choosing depth over busyness; wants to sit at Jesus’ feet before doing anything else.The season this character mirrors
The Story
While her sister Martha hurried to serve, Mary sat at Jesus’ feet and listened — and when Martha objected, Jesus said Mary had “chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her” (Luke 10:42). Later, Mary poured out a jar of costly perfume on Jesus’ feet, an act of extravagant devotion he defended and honored (John 12).
If This Is You
You’re Mary of Bethany. In a world — and often a church — that measures everything by busyness, you keep being drawn to something quieter: you just want to be with Jesus, to sit, to listen, to understand deeply before doing anything at all. Some people will call that impractical; someone called Mary that too. Jesus called it “the good portion” and promised it would never be taken from her. Depth is your gift. The roots you’re putting down now, unseen, will hold you steady in storms that flatten busier lives. Don’t let anyone rush you out of the posture Jesus praised. A next step: guard one unhurried time this week — no agenda, no productivity — just scripture, silence, and attention. Protect it like an appointment with a king.
Your Next Step, However You’re Wired
The character answers “where am I on the road?” The four growth dimensions answer “how do I best travel?” Both poles of every dimension are fully good, biblical ways to grow — take the version of the step that fits your wiring.
Guard the unhurried hour — scripture, silence, attention.
Find one other deep soul; go slow together.
Go deep on one book of the Bible rather than skimming many.
Devotion is your language — bring the costly perfume, whatever yours is.
Put the sitting-at-his-feet time on the calendar and defend it.
When the pull toward depth comes, drop the dishes and sit.
You’re home here — deepen it with silence and single-verse meditation.
Let the depth spill out — one act of extravagant, impractical love.